16 October 2007

It's not your fault

These words were said to a guy that years ago when He was young, he was physically abused by his parents, people that suppose to love him. Well-said indeed by his psychiatrist that cares about him, not merely doing his job. The part that really significant was when he said to his old friend that hire him to help the abused guy. He said that He was not going to push the guy, to make him feel like a failure, to make him use his old familiar tool which is his defense mechanism. The guy is allowed to make his own choices in life and he ought to be free to do it. the psychiatrist's old friend wanted the young guy to follow a course set by him, a glamorous job that will set the guy up high because he was way talented. The psychiatrist refused to work with his old friend, forcing the guy to do what his friend's want, eventhough the guy owes good deeds to his old friend. He just know that to do so will not be helping the damaged guy at all.

good will hunting

On another note, what a friend the guy had! a person who was able to walk back with him to his past and come out together strong. Reminding me of people God had put in my life, that has inspired, that is available to walk with me through those dark valleys and come out strong and safe.

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